Today marks a significant anniversary for my family and me, a day to celebrate life, health, and the value of work. It's a reminder that these gifts should never be taken for granted.
Exactly two years ago, I received the devastating news of being diagnosed with an aggressive brain tumor. The chaos of the COVID pandemic was beginning to settle, and life was about to return to normal. However, the universe had other plans. I struggled to comprehend the gravity of the situation. Time seemed to stand still. I feared that this was the end, that I would never have the chance to grow old with my beloved wife or witness my children's journey in life.
Thankfully, with the help of a remarkable doctor, we approached the operation with confidence, and it proved to be successful. But despite the triumph, the aftermath remained uncertain, leaving me in a state of overwhelming fatigue. We entered survival mode, placing a significant burden on my wife. Although suffering from these physical and mental limitations, I persisted in caring for my family to the best of my ability.
My career, a source of passion, suffered as I was unable to engage in mentally demanding tasks for several months. Against better judgment, I returned to work, believing I had fully recovered. However, I was constantly battling exhaustion and recurring illness.
Those were dark times filled with uncertainty, disappointment, and limitations. I felt misunderstood, confused, isolated, weak, and ashamed. Negativity infiltrated our lives, slowly revealing that the person I once was had vanished. Yet, those close to me know that I am an eternal optimist. Even in the face of adversity, I strive to find the positive side of things.
Guided by medical professionals, I prioritized my mental well-being, working towards becoming the best version of myself again. However, none of this would have been possible without the unwavering love and support of my incredible wife. Her presence has been a constant pillar of strength. I am also grateful for the support of close family, friends, colleagues, and medical staff, whose conversations and thoughtful messages brought warmth to my heart and a smile on my face.
Since the beginning of this year, I have gradually reintegrated into work, grateful for the renewed sense of purpose and direction it provides. If there's one vital element driving my recovery, it's finding balance in all my actions. The scales must be evenly balanced to ensure an overall quality of life.
I also want to emphasize the importance of organizations like 'Kom op tegen Kanker'. Without them, many people in need would not receive the essential medical and emotional support they require. So if you have the opportunity to support them, please do.
I would like to conclude this message with the words of a wise individual, "I must be willing to give up what I am in order to become what I will be."
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